How Women Can Enjoy Sexual Pleasure


How Women Can Enjoy Sexual Pleasure

Women do not seek out rela­tion­ships with men purely to enjoy orgasm. This is just as well because women’s sexual arousal tends to be elusive, espe­cially with a partner. What a woman does with this know­ledge is up to her.

Most women who masturbate exper­i­ence orgasm. More have orgasm with masturb­a­tion than in sex with a partner and these orgasms are often much more powerful than those exper­i­enced with love­making.

The most positive atti­tude is to approach a sexual rela­tion­ship with enthu­siasm and a sense of fun. Trust is needed for both part­ners to be able to talk about their sexual fantasies. Orgasm is only one aspect of enjoying sexual pleasure together and is much less rewarding if other sensual and loving sex play is missing.

Most couples who rate their sex lives highly say they are proactive in sex. They think about when, where and how they’ll have it and think up new things to try.

Couples who want to share ideas on enjoying sexual pleasure together, within the context of a healthy rela­tion­ship and appro­priate contra­cep­tion. Good sex relies on the will­ing­ness of both part­ners to invest effort in open commu­nic­a­tion and contem­plating new ideas. It is assumed that couples are informed about the basic sexual facts.

In summary, since inter­course has been defined as the basic form of sexu­ality, and the only natural, healthy, and moral form of phys­ical contact, it has auto­mat­ic­ally been assumed that this is when women should orgasm.

How To Enjoy Sex Play

Consider new ways of enjoying your own sexual arousal. Forget about the goal of orgasm and focus on erotic and sensual sexual pleasure.

Here are some suggestions:

Take your man shop­ping and get him some sexy clothes. Book an evening out together and have sex before you go out.

Prepare for sex by having a towel and water­proof sheet to protect the bed. This means that you don’t have to worry about marking the sheets and you can also use baby oil or other lubricant freely.

Offer your man a ‘quickie’ now and then (standing up or bending over perhaps in the shower or by the bed). This is pure male grat­i­fic­a­tion but he can always pay you back later!

Turn the tables on the sexual stereo­types. Think of your man as your sex toy. What would you like to do with a man who was at your beck and call? Do things the way you want to and just call on him when you feel you need him.

Many women never discover how to orgasm so be grateful for what you have! I had always assumed that sex should be, at least even­tu­ally, compar­able with female masturb­a­tion. I have since concluded that for me the two are quite separate experiences.

During sex, I enjoy the erot­i­cism of penet­rative sex and the oppor­tunity to explore with my partner how we can bring some variety to our sex life. When I am in the mood, I enjoy the pleas­ures of my own sexual arousal as my partner stim­u­lates me. During masturb­a­tion, I enjoy the erot­i­cism of sexual fantasies and the sensa­tions of release and relax­a­tion that come with orgasm.

I make the best of the pleas­ures that there are. Both exper­i­ences are very pleas­ur­able; just in a different way. It may be that how we enjoy our best orgasms is unique to ourselves. It is worth mentioning that I only became aware of my own phys­ical sexual arousal during sex from around my mid-thirties when my body reacted more favour­ably to being stim­u­lated by my partner.


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