Sex is an important part of a romantic relationship and some couples who are not sexually compatible may end their relationship because they lost the enthusiasm to continue seeing someone who is not sexually satisfying. But what if you are a married couple? Although sex is an integral part of a long-term relationship like marriage, it is best to find ways to add some zest to your sex life to become sexually compatible and avoid separation.
Is sex in your marriage still exciting? Or you feel that it is just like a chore or a duty that must be accomplished? If you are a husband suffering from sexual dissatisfaction in your marriage, the following tips can be very helpful to add some zest to your sex life and save your marriage.
Put sometime for foreplay. Good sex is not a thing that can be done in rush. It is an art that can be done slowly for couples to connect emotionally and physically. Foreplay is an important part of sex because by spending some time for foreplay you are allowing the intimacy level between you and your wife to build up. Foreplay is not only about touching and kissing but foreplay can start outside the bedroom.
You can increase her excitement for sex by flirting with her outside the bedroom. Send her naughty or sexy text messages, date her, send her flowers and express your desire to get intimate with her later at home or in a romantic place. Spending time for foreplay is a great way to add some zest to your sex life.
Be open about your sexual fantasies. Do you have sexual fantasies that you want to be fulfilled? If you keep on hiding your sexual fantasies, you will end up frustrated and unhappy with your sex life. Have the courage to open up and talk about your sexual fantasies with your wife. Chances are she might also have a number of sexual fantasies that needs to be realized. Being open to your wife about your sexual desires and encouraging her to open up about her sexual fantasies can be very helpful to make your sex life fulfilling and satisfying. Fulfilling each other’s sexual fantasies can definitely add some zest to your sex life.
Experiment in the bedroom. One way to add some zest to your sex life is to try new things and experiment in the bedroom. Experimenting in the bedroom doesn’t have to mean suggesting things that can be very uncomfortable for your wife like an additional sex partner. You can suggest new sex positions, role playing, sex toys and sex furniture to your wife and encourage her to be open minded about these things. Those suggestions can add excitement and pleasure in your sex life.
Of course you should know what is extreme and can be very uncomfortable for your wife. Do not assume that your wife will be enthusiastic with all the changes and suggestions. It is important to put the spark back in your sex life but it is also important to properly communicate with your wife before experimenting in the bedroom to make her feel that she is being heard and her approval matters.
Learn new techniques to pleasure your wife. Good sex needs some skills especially from men. It maybe hard to accept that you lack the skills but the truth is, we all need to learn to improve ourselves in whatever we do whether at work, school and also in the bedroom.
To enhance your sex life you have to keep honing your sexual skills. This will not only benefit you and your wife but also your marriage. A sexually satisfied wife is always happy and looking forward to be with you.